The girl i love has many admirers, and one of them is my friend

I am really really lost here. I haven’t told anyone about my feeling towards this girl. But yesterday my friend told me that he likes her and asked​ me and other friends for help in getting her attention. I wanted to let him know about my feeling but I don’t have the courage to say it out at that time. What should I do??

I am thinking maybe i should give up coz the girl hasnt shown any interest in me although we knew each​ other for about 3 years. We don’t talk much and the worst thing is she has a few good looking and sweet talking admirers around her. I don’t think that me and my friend has a chance at all…

One Reply to “The girl i love has many admirers, and one of them is my friend”

  1. This happened to me as well and I fully understand how bad it felt. You may hurt your relationship with both your friend(s) and your crush if you don’t handle this well. In my opinion, you should take a step back and sort out your feeling for your crush. How deep are your feeling for your crush? Is that girl worth the risk?

    If you are very certain that she is the one that you can’t live without, then you should be honest and tell that to your friend (and prepare yourself for things to go poorly). Depending on situation, who knows maybe your friend understand and even support you as well.

    However, if you are uncertain about your feeling, then give yourself some time and don’t make any rash decision. Let things develop and try to be sensitive to their feelings as well as your own in your decision.

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