When my husband and I got married we were open. I decided to close our relationship when I realized I only wanted him. Recently he has picked up smoking and I just can’t handle it, I can’t handle the price of the things or his new smell: I can’t imagine being without him so I reopened our relationship and told him some BS because of the smell I just can’t have sex with him anymore. I figure either no one else will sleep with him because of the smell or someone will tell him he smells awful or he will find another smoker fall in love and leave me and be happy. I can not imagine a day without him but I want him to be happy. I feel so sad. I’m not sure what I want to do.