I’m worried that I’ll never find love

I’m an introvert. I barely leave my house, never go out of my way to meet new people, and when forced into social situations I become extremely reclusive.
This means I would barely meet any girls in my life, and even if I do it’s not like I would be able to talk to them.

The one place where I was able to meet girls and even become comfortable with some is at school, since I’m forced into at least seeing other people at school, even if I don’t socialize with them.
In addition to that, I have a harder time developing an attraction towards someone who isn’t the same age as me, and at school I can tell which girls are at a similar age to me due to them being in my grade.
I’ve only had a few serious crushes, and most of them have been on classmates.

Problem is… I’m very close to graduating.
And I don’t know how high of chances I’ll really have to meet someone after that.

So if I really don’t want to risk it, I should probably try and ask someone from school, right?
Well, I would, if I had an active crush. But I don’t have any. At least not anything that is more than superficial and/or that I think I should act on.
Like, sure, this one girl is kind of attractive and that one girl is kind of attractive etc etc, but we never talk, and again, I’m not comfortable with just talking to new people like this.

Even though I’m antisocial, I really want to be in a relationship.

And I don’t know what to do.

Can I be confident that I’ll find someone later in life?

Should I wing it now?

I don’t know.

One Reply to “I’m worried that I’ll never find love”

  1. I understand how you feel. I’m the same but you shouldn’t rush it there is someone out there for you. Personally i suck at talking to the boys to the point that i google what to say during a conversation , i know tragic but then cut them off after a few days in fear they might get. I’m going to an all girls school and whenever its student exchange by some weird reason the boy always sits beside me and i get super quiet that the whole class freaks out. Maybe you should try talking to persons of the same gender and hear how they talk to girls or other people. Just start with one and slowly build from there. Relationship are best not rushed

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