I have been in this company for about a year and yet I am still struggling to mingle around with my colleagues. My colleagues here are generally friendly but somehow I just could not fit myself in any of the groups. Even the gang that I thought was the closest with, didn’t even bother inviting me to their private chat group. There is no sense of belonging in this place at all. Not much conversations between me and my colleagues other than work related talk. I tried to start some conversations with them but the talks normally don’t last long and I don’t enjoy it at all.
I know the problem lies with me because some of my colleagues who joined later than me has no problem socialising here. I thought of quitting but I know I will always face this problem if I don’t improve my communication and social skills. Sigh, what am i supposed to do?