We’ve been together for 5 years. Since Highschool. Im getting tired of him. I compare my relationship with him with my sisters relationship with her bf. They go out, he has a car, he takes her to beautiful places on her birthday and on their anniv. But me what do i get?? “I ll make it up to you” always those words. He always tell me that he has no money yet he collects toys or actionfigures. He cant treat me on fast food restaurants and in our five years together we never went out on a fancy date. Always commuting and even the commute he cant treat me. Again i have no issue with money but Im a girl i want to be treated somewhere nice atleast one time every year. I dont ask for expensive dates I dont request to text and call everyday but for my birthday and for our anniversarry atleast make the day special. My father is married to my mom for 25 years now and he never fails to take her out every saturday. Even though they are married he makes sure that my mom will only bring herself, phone amd a scarf. Every date night is his treat and every request she makes is granted in a snap. I want that kind of relationahip but I do understand that he cant give me everything I want today but atleast treat me once in a while. Again i dont ask for expensive gift or dates every month or something. I jist want him to make my birthday and anniversarries special abecause I make sure that his birthday is awesome by throwing him pool parties giving him his favorite characters from starwars and everything but when ita his turn to give he always say he’ll make it up to me. He’s my first and I dont think that we will last longer than what we have now….is what im feeling wrong? Am i too selfish? Am i wrong?