I got out of a pretty emotionally abusive relationship last month and i feel like im at war with myself over it. I want to move on, I want to put myself out there, but Im scared that im going to meet somebody like him again. I just want to learn from this and move on the the paranoia and depression im feeling over it is holding me back. Why can’t i just be happy? Hes out of my life, he cant pressure me into sex or manipulate me or yell at me anymore. I’m free! so why am i not happy?